So for those of you that don’t know me, I’m Kirstie and I’m a text-a-holic…just kidding! However I do think that one day I might have arthritis in my right thumb! I really forget how we communicated without cellphones before they were around? I don’t know anyone who doesn’t have a cell phone these days.
If you are anything like me, I was completely oblivious to the fact that I was going over my texting limit on the business plan I’m on, and wondering why I was paying those big bills! In the last 2 jobs I’ve had, I have been the top ‘text-er’ amongst all my colleagues.
Definitely nothing to brag about but I guess it shows how much I value communicating with people. I use texting as a tool to stay in touch with people that I don’t get to see everyday, to show people in my life that I care for them and be there for people such as friends and family. It doesn’t have to be long and take much time out of your day, but by just saying a few words shows the receiver you were thinking of them and it can make their day. I know I feel cared for when I receive a message from a friend, especially if it’s been a hard day.
Texting is also great as it’s non-threatening and if you are busy you can reply later. There is no pressure to respond immediately.
When it comes to safety (and the law), I’m definitely a believer of not texting and driving. However I do get caught in my car outside my friends’ houses texting others before I enter their houses! And I will admit that I have texted while being in the bathroom!
Some other tips:
- Don’t text when angry. You may regret it later. Better to sleep on it if you are unsure.
- Don’t have conversations via text that really need to be face to face. These texts can be misinterpreted. For example, to resolve conflict or to break up with a girl/guy- never do these over text!
- Don’t text and drive. Your life and the lives around you are too valuable to be lost by sending or reading a message that could wait 5 or 10 minutes.
So go on and take a minute out of your day and encourage a friend or family member. Let someone know that you are thinking of them. We all need an ‘atta girl’ or ‘atta boy’ every now and then. Make the most of the fun technology we have in our finger tips! Build on relationships in your life simply by sending a text! And don’t forget to add a smiley face!
Kirstie – Fit 4 Life Staff